Hi guys and welcome back to another post by yours truly.
This time I want to discuss self esteem and confidence. Self esteem and confidence is something I personally struggled with as a teen and sometimes and a little bit as an adult as well.
The reason why I am writing this and telling that I struggled with that is because I am not invincible. I am not superman. I am not as confident as I seem online.
I feel that my struggles with self confidence and self esteem is something I want to share with you guys because I want you all to know that you are not the only one out there who is struggling with it. Everybody has their issues with themselves. And so do I.
I am there with you. I know what it is like to constantly have to worry about the way you look, worrying about what others think of you and how they perceive you.
When you struggle with self esteem and self confidence, it can affect every part of your life. Your work, your family life and your social life too.
But there is always a reason why we experience doubt within ourselves, the way we look and how we interact with people. And whatever that reason is…it is different for everyone.
And the reason why I am dedicating this post to talking about this topic is because i know how challenging it can be to live with that. To live with the constant worrying about everything. Low self esteem and confidence ties in with your mental health. And I can freely admit that my low confidence and low self belief in myself is a major part of my anxiety today.
The way we feel about ourselves has a huge effect on (and takes a toll on) your mental health and wellbeing. It ties in with the way you think mentally. Constantly worrying. About everything, about yourself to being concerned with what others think of you.
I am here to say that we can work through this together. We are able to be more confident and have a better self esteem. And the only we can do that, is by placing ourselves in situations we may not like but will be good for us in the near & long future.
The more we face uncomfortable situations, the better. Life will throw a lot at us, it’s how we handle it that’ll make us a hell of a lot stronger.
If I am able to work on my self confidence and self esteem by doing that, then you can too.
Thank you for reading.
Ps. This took a lot for me to write. And it took a while for me to put this post together. So please if you can, refrain from any negativity in the comments. I know I’ll be judged for this and my blog anyhow. But I just don’t want to hear about it.
Thank you. X